Facebook comment ended friendship ':(

'I had a f.r.i.e.n.d', itself a sad note to begin with. I don't and won't regret anything in my life in blogging this out.

I was surprised and shocked to see the reply comment from a guy I never expected; it was like a burst of all his anger on me which he had for so long if am not wrong and I may be wrong but will stick to it what I am saying. 

I commented out on his latest profile pic saying that, 'Why have you were been sharing the profile picture again and again? Just to get too many likes on your profile picture. chi.. chi... :)' 

We have been friends for a long, so I felt I have that much right to say and comment. But it was my bad day and he poured all his s**t thoughts and replied, 'A**H*** if you don't know how to comment then s**t the f**k up dude. But don't give some dumb s**t. First, you learn one proper profile pic ... Don't ever comment like that..grow up

It was a heartbroken moment for me, I couldn't take it. I was not able to digest it any longer. I replied, 'Thanks, dude. this would be my last comment forever. sorry about that..!' 

If someone is nice, I have been so nice to them and if someone is so harsh then I have always ignored them in my life. I neither pray good for his life nor bad. I just ignore it and I forget that something was there before. It would be hard to understand for someone, how someone can just ignore it? but I just put a full stop and continue as I have many things to finish before I die. 

Somewhere I feel, I am more innocent and easily getting emotional to silly things. I know that I am in a learning phase of my life, these things will make me strong and stronger to face many such challenges in the coming days. But the question is, how am I going to tackle it today?

Either I go 'tit for tat' or I go silently without hurting anyone.

I chose not to hurt anyone and I thank him for letting me know that, how much I valued him. And sorry in case if I would have hurt him unknowingly because my mom always used to say this phrase that 'if you can't do anything good to anyone then its fine but don't do any worse at least. I don't know how much my mom valued this phrase, I have been listening to this all my years and I wanted to be a person with that attitude.

I am not sure but I can realize and feel how much I have grown up and learned from him after that incident. Thanks to him for all this learning and I am not a that bad friend to put him in a bad light after our friendship was over and he was not that bad friend, the world should curse him.

Thanks and sorry once again buddy but I still have 3 words to say, 'I ignore you' da ':(

-R a m e s h

PS: Right word is 'Apathy'.