Real Happiness

Have you anytime wondered, felt you were happy and you ain't. If you were sad at some point in your life and moved on. During that little period if you have Googled "how to be happy?", "how to make myself happy?" then you would have observed it was resulting in millions of pages (and it does even now), pointing you to stare at them like never before. One such page would be from 'WikiHow' with 12-15 points guidelines like a ray of hope guiding you 'what to do?' and 'what not to do?'. You will start believing in it, as you see there is no chance but to believe in whether you really believe in or not.

Let's say you have moved on, everything seems okay now. But if you were still reading motivational quotes, inspirational quotes, or the quotes which suit to your present situation, etc. then underlying truth is you're NOT really happy after doing ten thousand things that you could do so. Just for someone's sake, you can pretend to be happy but you aren't. Real happiness always lies within your belief that what you really want from your heart and when it doesn't get satisfies then nothing can substitute it. But people say, over the period of time it gives that opportunity to replace or might change your priority of what you want, this could be true for an instance. If you get stuck to the same old stuff, then nothing is going to move on. It is agreeable fact that you weren't happy at that point in time but as said, over the period of time you should allow yourself to change. I'm not saying, we should be going behind something and try to make ourselves happy as our goal. It doesn't work like that. Just go with the tide, try out a few things and if you really get interested in any of them then continue until it doesn't make you bore out of it. Your aim isn't to make happy, but to move on from where you aren't supposed to be.

You don't need to keep a test for yourself, whether you're happy or not? It will just happen and you will be knowing it by heart.

The one who is really happy, he never talks about happiness. In happiness, you're always over the moon. You don't know what starvation is all about, you don't know what world is going through, you don't know how many people suicides with depression, you won't be writing a blog like me, etc etc etc. You don't get time to think whether you're happy or sad. We talk about it when something disturbs us, though few people accept it as a good thing that happened in their life, in the sense, it was much needed one, which has awakened them from the so-called dream life and introduces them to the real world.

It's a known fact that time always heals things. It may take days, months, or years in some cases but for sure it would be. If you're in a hurry then no one can feed you wonderful curry :) Hard luck. If you can believe that giving some time to yourself would really make things work for you then it's going to be true for sure. Just that, you don't need to measure how long it is going to be taken?

I should admit that I'm not fully happy at this stage of my life. I really hate it but I'm also fine with what I'm going through at this stage. It gave me the opportunity to discuss, what real happiness is all about. The hard truth is when I'm really happy; I won't be talking anything philosophical of this sort :)

With Love,

-R a m es h